Xena Warrior

If I have the power to change things, I will. "It is what it is" will not be a cop out.

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Boys and Men Be Warned
8 months ago
Whelp... this post is NOT going to be comfortable for everyone to read. Today I'm going to be talking about contraceptives. Judge me as you wish, but for years I allowed fear to keep me from ever goin...
I Am a Christian and I Had an Abortion (Part 1)
9 months ago
7...14...21...28, 29, 30, 31... 32. Thirty-two days since my last cycle. I was late. In fifteen years I had never been late. Which only meant... "Wife? What's wrong?" My husband calls me "wife," I call him "husband." We were engaged for nearly two years and calling him "fiancé" had tasted like vinegar in my mouth, even worse so when he was "boyfriend." Those nouns just hadn't cut it when it came to what he meant to me. So when we got married I got in the habit of happily calling him "husband;" i...
I Am a Christian and I Had an Abortion (Part 2)
9 months ago
I still had to wait another seven days before I could even be seen. In the meantime, I tormented myself by going online and seeing what developments would occur in my pregnancy and the cons of having an abortion. I found Christian propaganda—something about how abortions cause breast cancer. So keeping that in mind, I cut off communication... with everyone, because most everyone I knew was a Bible thumping, church-going Christian. I didn't want to risk anyone finding out and trying to stop me. I...
So When Are You Having Kids?
9 months ago
Let me start off by saying that I AM NOT A MOTHER. I am not trying to discredit women who want to be stay-at-home moms. I tip my hat to the women who wake up before the sun rises because their infant ...