This upsets me the most, having a friend of mine telling me how she doesn’t feel pretty enough or good enough or plain and simple enough, because a guy did not see her worth. Ladies do not ever let any man make you feel less about yourself because he thinks more with his bottom head, then with his actual brain. Believe me I know it is hard to not let a guy get in your head, I have been there, but I am here to tell you that you are not the problem. He was the problem.
Any guy that makes you feel less about yourself is not a man. He is a boy. A real man knows a women’s worth and how she should properly be treated. Do not change who you are for a boy because no matter what you do, that boy will find anything wrong with you. He may call you fat, so you work out then he finds you too skinny. Your ass is too flat, but when you do what you can to make it more former you then are considered fat or too muscular. Your hair color can be too dull for his liking. Your skin tone is to plain or to dark. Your eye color to light or to dark. Your boobs to small, then they end up being too big. You eat like a cow or you are not eating enough. You are to curvy or too boney. No matter what you do you will never be perfect to a boy because he cares more about getting laid, than having a partner.
That is why ladies I tell you to only change for you. If you want to feel happier about yourself, for you only, then change. You want to feel more healthier and energized and you think working out more will help with that, then go for it, as long as your doing it for you alone. You want to feel more beautiful about yourself and think wearing makeup will help with that, then do it. You want to feel more hot and sexier and you think wearing different style of clothes will help, then put on those sexy clothes. The most important person you should care about loving you is you. You don’t need a man for you to love yourself. Also, ladies after being with a guy who is not right for you don’t ever beat yourself up over him. He failed to see how amazing and wonderful you truly are.
He hurt you, don’t let him contain hurting you by making you hate yourself. The best thing you can do to get back at him for what he did to you, is proving him wrong. Make him regret you by being proud of who you are and loving yourself. Show him that even though he hurt you, you don’t easily break. Show him that you are confident, strong, and beautiful no mater what he ever said to you.
When you miss the jerk because you cared, do not beat yourself up for caring. It is okay to care, it just proves how amazing of a person you are. Just remind yourself what he did to you and why he is not worth your love and care. Remember that a guy who uses you did not deserve you in the first place. You are beautiful inside and out. You are amazing and strong. We women are powerful beings. We can over come anything and everything. We go through more crap then any man could ever could image. We go through labor and bring children in this world. We stress and worry more than any man possible could. Any guy who thinks less about a woman, are actually afraid of how important and powerful we truly are. Be proud of being a woman. Show those jerks the strong female you all are.