relationships
Trace the link between feminism and relationships from outdated norms to modern conventions including chivalry, working mothers, splitting the bill and beyond.
#SingleMomChronicles:Hey Daddy
Being a single mother means that I am raising my daughters predominately on my own. Each daughter has her own father. I met my oldest daughters father when I was a kid. I was 6 years old and he was the 7 year old neighborhood bad boy. I met him because he stole my little brothers bike. I was gonna get it back. I was prepared to fight if necessary. Our parents (back then and still to this very day) live n the same block. Our relationship lasted 5 years. Our daughter was born when I was 20 (i turned 21 a little over a month later), and he was 22. I knew I had to grow up fast in order to care for this child. I bought a car in January, gave birth in February and signed the lease to my apartment in April. My daughters father wasn't ready to leave the streets. By that, I mean he still wanted to hang out with the homies. While I do not promote terminating pregnancy, I wanted to explore all my options. This was in 2005. I gave her dad a choice. I said to him: "are you sure you want to keep this baby? I don't want to be a single mother." Here we are 17 years later...
Latoya GilesPublished about a year ago in VivaThe Rise of Women: Why The Future Belongs to Females
The phrase "woman's rights" first appeared in the French phrase "women's liberation." In the 1980s, the struggle for equal political and legal liberties for women was referenced by the communist utopian Charles Fourier.
Ahamed ThousifPublished about a year ago in Viva#SingleMomChronicles: Stats
I am a black woman. I have never been married. I have a different father for each of my two children. They are both largely absent, financially and physically. Each of those things alone place me in a certain category of society. Put them all together and I am the epitome of a stereotypical "black mom". Stereotypes are not race or gender specific unfortunately. I am so very tired of the single mom narrative. Y'all know what I'm talking about. Popular opinion suggests that single moms are lazy and just leach off the government. All the blame is always placed on us.Perhaps, had we chosen better men, we wouldn't be single moms. If we can't make ends meet, we need to work more hours or get a higher paying job. Heck, some people have the nerve to say work TWO jobs, instead of depending on the government. I have even heard folks have the audacity to tell a mom that if she couldn't afford children, she shouldn't have had them. Are you freaking kidding me? I cannot speak for anyone but myself, but life happens. It is quite as simple as that. One day I have a good job and life is good, then all of a sudden the whole world is thrust into a pandemic and my mother is in the hospital fighting for her life. She gets better (thank goodness) only for my children to get Covid. Naturally, as their sole caregiver, I got sick too after a while. I lost my job.
Latoya GilesPublished about a year ago in VivaA Glimpse into the Passing Ships
The ocean was always a place of mystery and intrigue for Jane. As a child, she would sit by the beach and watch the waves crash against the shore, mesmerized by the sheer power of the sea. She would often see large ships pass by in the distance, and wonder where they were going and what kind of adventures awaited them on the other side. Now, as an adult, Jane had the opportunity to find out.
MalikSaira MaqboolPublished about a year ago in VivaThe Dangerous Agenda Behind Gender Fluidity: A Critical Analysis
Gender fluidity is a term used to describe individuals who do not identify exclusively with one gender. The concept of gender fluidity has gained increasing attention in recent years as part of the broader discussion around LGBT issues. However, there is a darker side to the gender fluidity movement that is often overlooked. In this article, we will explore the dangerous agenda behind gender fluidity and its negative impact on society.
Yosr StudioPublished about a year ago in VivaFinding Self
As a young girl, Lily had always felt lost in the world. She lacked direction, and her relationships were often shallow and unfulfilling. It wasn't until she found herself alone, after a particularly painful breakup, that she realized it was time to start the journey of finding herself. She began the journey of finding herself, which was filled with many obstacles and hardships. But she pushed through them, determined to come out the other side with a newfound sense of confidence and identity.
Swati BadhanPublished about a year ago in VivaThe Benefits of CBD for Menstrual Cramps: A Natural Solution for Women's Health
Introduction: Menstrual cramps, also known as dysmenorrhea, affect millions of women worldwide. These painful cramps can be debilitating and often require women to take over-the-counter painkillers or prescription medications to alleviate the discomfort. However, these medications often come with unwanted side effects and can be harmful to the body in the long run. In recent years, there has been an increasing interest in the use of cannabidiol (CBD) as a natural alternative to traditional medications. This article aims to explore the benefits of CBD in managing menstrual cramps and other menstrual symptoms.
junaid mughalPublished about a year ago in VivaCelebrating Women: Recognizing Their Contributions and Overcoming Challenges
Introduction Women have played a vital role in shaping society, culture, and history. Despite numerous obstacles, women have contributed to the progress and development of humanity in many ways. In this article, we will explore the remarkable achievements of women, highlight their ongoing struggles, and discuss the ways we can support women's empowerment and gender equality.
Muhammad AtifPublished about a year ago in VivaFrom to Green Tea to Black Tea: The Tea-rrific Labels For Tea-rrible Women in Asia
Let’s face it, ladies. Most of us have been labeled negatively at some point in our lives — knowingly or unknowingly. “Bimbo”, “whiny bitch” and “gold digger” are just three examples of the labels society loves to make based on our looks, actions, or marital status. And let’s be honest, some labels are just downright funny (and maybe a little bit accurate) while some are just downright mean.
Mayzie ChanPublished about a year ago in VivaDear Punk Girl, You Can Still Be A Goddess
I often tell ‘punk’ girls about the history of punk rock and heavy metal in the United States. I’m a 80’s baby who used to mess up my hair while watching bands like Scorpions, Aerosmith, and RATT. On the other hand, I used to mess my hair up on Friday nights while listening to Johnny Kemp’s song, “Just Got Paid.” The punk rock community was known for being one of lower socio-economic idiosyncrasies, leading young women to believe that in order to be part of it, you had to accept low vibrational careers, relationships, and trajectories. Well, you don’t.
Madame Iris Lady CreolePublished about a year ago in VivaHow to handle a partner's emotional baggage
Emotional baggage refers to unresolved emotional issues that a person carries with them from their past experiences. These unresolved emotions can negatively impact an individual's current relationships, including romantic relationships. When you enter into a romantic relationship, you may find that your partner carries emotional baggage. In this article, we will explore how to handle a partner's emotional baggage and provide tips for supporting your partner and maintaining a healthy relationship.
Rajveer Digital MarketerPublished about a year ago in Viva"25 Healthy Habits for a Better Quality of Life"
Healthy Habits for a Better Quality of Life Living a healthy lifestyle is essential for a better quality of life. Adopting healthy habits not only helps in maintaining a good physical and mental state but also reduces the risk of various diseases. Here are some healthy habits that one can adopt to live a better life.
prabas naiduPublished about a year ago in Viva