gender roles
A look at the evolution of gender roles, from Leave It to Beaver, paternity leave, female breadwinners and more.
The Goddess Myth
My nine-year-old thinks I walk on water. In her eyes, I am the epitome of the perfect mother. In contrast, my 16- and 18-year-old each cannot wait to escape what they often perceive to be my totalitarian regime. Balancing out such sharply contrasting views, my 24-year-old admits that, while there have been times that my mothering techniques might be questionable, at best, he can no longer deny that he didn’t make things any easier for either one of us. Today, as an adult who can reflect on the past with less biased views, my first-born child thinks I am a “good enough” mother. Personally, there are days when I have to strongly question my own methods, just as there are days – well, fleeting moments, anyway – where I think I should win the “Best Mom Ever” award. When measured against societal standards for mothers, though, I fall short. Some might even consider me a bad mother. I used to care what the outside world thought of me, and I tried, in vain, to adjust myself to better meet societal expectations. When I did, one of two things would happen: either I would continue to fall short in some (insignificant, in my mind) way, or, more often, I’d finally meet those ridiculous expectations, and then society would change them! Eventually, I had to do some real soul searching, and I had to honestly ask myself whether I was truly “good enough” to be a mother to my children. To this day, I still have moments when I am left questioning my own adequacy at mothering. Often, the only thing I can do is throw my hands up and say, “good enough.” Heck, we may as well just face it, perfection will always remain just out of reach. We mothers must stop reaching for something that we will never be able to grasp; that we were never meant to grasp. In the race to become the mythical perfect mother, we place ourselves in an unfair and burdensome position, where in the end, we are sure to be judged as failures – whether by those around us, or even worse, by ourselves. It is time that mothers unite against unrealistic parenting expectations and say, “No, thanks. I’ll settle for good enough.”
Melissa ShorttPublished 10 months ago in VivaMan Attacked Hilda Baci For Wearing Bikini; Claims Guinness Book Should Remove Her For Bathing Suit
Wednesday, 7 June 2023 By: TB Obwoge I was posting the morning news links for Nigeria, when scrolling Facebook I saw this man's post. I thought he was initially joking, as he claimed the chef and newest Guinness Book of World Records holder was naked. In the photos you can clearly see she's not nude in any of the photos.
IwriteMywrongsPublished 11 months ago in VivaTHINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER SHARE WITH YOUR PARTNER NO MATTER WHAT
things one should never share with their partner no matter what Establishing healthy boundaries is a crucial aspect of any relationship. While open communication and trust are vital, there are certain topics that individuals may choose to keep private from their partners. This essay aims to explore the concept of boundaries in relationships and delve into specific areas where discretion may be necessary. However, it is essential to note that these guidelines are not absolute and depend on the unique dynamics of each relationship.
Bridget DykePublished 11 months ago in VivaWeight Loss
Introduction; Losing weight can be a challenging journey, but with effective strategies, it becomes more attainable and sustainable. While there is no magic pill or quick fix, there are proven methods that can help you achieve your weight loss goals. In this article, we will explore a range of strategies that focus on healthy and sustainable weight loss. By incorporating these strategies into your lifestyle, you can make progress towards your desired weight and maintain it in the long run.
Villu pattu magic
Villu Pattu magic Villu Pattu Madhavi is an eminent people work of art from the territory of Tamil Nadu, India. It is an enrapturing and dynamic type of conventional music and narrating that has been gone down through ages. Villu Pattu is a mix of two Tamil words, "villu" significance bow and "pattu" meaning tune, which alludes to the melodic backup of a bow-molded instrument called "Villu" or "Yazh," played during the presentation.
vinoth kumarPublished 11 months ago in VivaTHINGS THAT ATTRACT WOMEN TO MEN
Things That Attract Women To Men Attraction is a complex and multifaceted phenomenon that can vary greatly from person to person. While it's important to note that individual preferences and priorities differ, there are certain qualities and traits that are commonly associated with attracting women. Here are some of the factors that often contribute to attraction:
Bridget DykePublished 11 months ago in VivaRani ayilabai the forgotten queen
Rani Ayilabai, the Forgotten Queen Rani Ayilabai, a name lost in the records of history, was a momentous sovereign who opposed the standards of her time and made a permanent imprint on the realm she dominated. Notwithstanding her achievements and commitments, she stays a neglected figure in the pages of history. In this exposition, we will dive into the life and tradition of Rani Ayilabai, revealing insight into her surprising rule and the purposes for her lack of definition.
vinoth kumarPublished 11 months ago in Viva"Beyond Boundaries: Embracing Equality in Islam's Tapestry of Gender Roles"
Introduction: In the realm of Islam, the roles and responsibilities of men and women are guided by principles of equality, justice, and harmony. Rooted in the sacred Quran and the teachings of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), Islam presents a holistic framework that encourages mutual respect and cooperation between genders. This article explores the multifaceted roles of men and women in Islam, drawing upon Quranic verses and Hadiths to exemplify the ideals of gender equality.
Essence hivePublished 11 months ago in VivaWhy Can't Americans Agree on, Well, Nearly Anything? Philosophy Has Some Answers
Why Can't Americans Agree on, Well, Nearly Anything? Philosophy Has Some Answers In today's polarized and divided political landscape, it seems that Americans struggle to find common ground on almost any issue. Whether it's healthcare, gun control, climate change, or immigration, discussions quickly devolve into heated arguments and entrenched positions. The question arises: why is it so difficult for Americans to agree on anything? Interestingly, philosophy, with its rich tradition of grappling with complex questions of human nature and society, offers some insights into this phenomenon.
News BucksPublished 11 months ago in VivaGhana 'so-called' News Outlet Sexualizes Broadcaster Ghanians Came to Speak-Up Remove Post!
Monday, 21 May 2023 By; TB Obwoge In Ghana there has been so many news reports about the defilement (rape) of children. Women have given up trying to report their cases of rape in Ghana, which shows you how lawless they are when it comes to violence against women, girls and rape.
IwriteMywrongsPublished 11 months ago in VivaWomen & Girls Under Attack in Ghana: Myself & Another Black American Reported Sexual Assault & Domestic Violence
Friday, 19 May 2023 By: TB Obwoge I've written about going to the police for help in filing a report when one John Henaku stole my identity. He tried to create an account with me, I thought he was helping me, he however created the account with his email and password.
IwriteMywrongsPublished 11 months ago in VivaPregnancy, Birth And Beyond
Pregnancy, childbirth, and the postpartum period are transformative and awe-inspiring journeys that bring joy, challenges, and significant changes to a woman's life. Maternal health during this time is of utmost importance, as it directly impacts both the mother and the baby. In this comprehensive guide, we will delve into the various aspects of pregnancy, childbirth, and the postpartum period, providing essential information and insights to support maternal health and well-being.
OJO OREOFEPublished 11 months ago in Viva